Argumentative Essay2 -Should Both Parents Assume Equal Responsibilities in Raising a Child?

                   Should Both Parents Assume Equal Responsibilities in Raising a Child?

                Some parents think that it can be enough for children if only mother take their responsibilities. These people think like this are generally father because they don’t want to be interested in their children’s problems. However, it is accepted that fathers and mothers responsibilities are different from each other in families, but their responsibilities are equal. So, both parents should assume equal responsibility in raising a child because children want to draw their attention, children don’t spend lots of time with them, they don’t consider only one of them and it gains some thoughts.

                Assuming equal responsibility is important for children because they want to draw both parents’ interest, not only their one parent’s interest. They generally think that their families don’t want them when they can’t draw their parents’ attentions. If they are successful, they want to take a present or be congratulated by their parents. Its cause is that they want to see that they are important for their parents. It is agreed that being seen by himself or herself is important for his or her developing.

                Parents take equal responsibility in raising a child because they do same thing in all day. Women and men generally go to the works and don’t return their home until the late hours, so both of them are fatigued. Therefore, they don’t have lots of time to learn what something is right or wrong to their children. Only being looked after by a parent may not be enough for them because children are at school or at home and their parents are at works all day. They can overcome this problem only if they separate equal time for their children.

                If only a parent take responsibilities for their child, it can’t be enough because children generally don’t consider about a parent whatever she/he says. It is most common reason is that women are more interested in their children and they assume more responsibilities than men So, children think that whatever they do their fathers don’t interested in neither their nor women’s thoughts. They can also think that they resist their mothers because of their thoughts which they are stronger than their mothers. However, they don’t face with these problems if their father also interested them.

                Parents’ equal responsibilities affect children in terms of their lives and futures because it gains them some thoughts. As the way their sharing responsibilities is one of good examples for them, they learn to share something which is important for people by this way. Everyone isn’t more important than the others since everyone do same things in their families. Because they see that their parents fulfill their tasks, they can learn how to realize their duties.

                To sum up, assuming equal responsibilities in raising a child is helpful both parents and the child although some people don’t think like this. One of the most significant problems is that it’s not accepted by families because of their thoughts. They think that only women raise their children even if they work and men generally are confident about it.  However, it should be accepted because of reasons which are written.

Argumentative Essay 1

Should School Provide Moral Education for Youth, or Should Instruction in Values Be Left to Parents?

                Learning is the most important things in our life, so it is essential for every part of our lives. Therefore, learning moral education which is one of the most important parts of education isn’t enough. However, it can be accepted that the most important term is childhood because children’s memories, style of life and thoughts determine that how they lead their lives. So, it can’t be said that instruction in values should be left to parents.

It’s accepted that education starts in family and it is started by parents. These things which are learned by children from their parents effect children’s life. Thanks to them, Children choose their truths and wrongs. However, because this term is major and children’s thoughts can be affected easily by small sentences. Their thoughts and believes which are learned can change if they aren’t learned constantly. So, they must learn something for their moral education in every part of time and learning in only home isn’t enough to have a good moral education.

Children learn and do lots of things in their childhood term but they determine their behaviors according to their morality. However, their moralities are determined by their surroundings, so where they spend their time and with whom they are spend their time are two factors of shaping their lives. They are at school in most of their time and there isn’t so much time for them expect for school.  Therefore, they can’t learn anything whether it is about moral behaviors or not if they don’t learn them at schools.

They generally connected with their surroundings and it is necessary to get morality and raise their morality. They are connected with their friends when they are at school, so their morality shape what they see their friends. If all children don’t learn same morality behavior, they can’t decide their behaviors. One way of learning same moral behaviors is education which is made at schools because most students behave considering their teachers what teach them.

They can’t behave morally if they don’t know how to behave in a moral way. They can’t learn it only at home because parents generally don’t enough time to be interested in their children’s behaviors. Parents are at school and children are school in all day, so they can’t spend so much time to teach how they behave towards their, friends and person elder than them. Moreover, parents generally think that children can learn moral behavior when they live because they generally accept that their children don’t imitate only them and other factors are important.

As long as children learn moral behavior, the possibility of being accepted by others is high. If they don’t have moral behaviors, they can understand everything but they may not how to behave. Education can’t be separated and it goes on develop every part of people’s lives. Because youth is also important, moral education which is provided by parents can’t be enough and schools should provide moral education for youth.