17 Mart 2014 Pazartesi

SINGLE LIFE AND MARRIED LIFE- (COMPARISON AND CONTRAST ESSAY ) - SECOND DRAFT



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THESIS: There are some differences between married life and single life.

1.       Single people are  more indepedent  than married people.
A.      Married people
1.       Married people must explain everyting about their life.
2.       Married people must think what time should  they go home.
B.      Single people
1.       Single people don’t have to explain everyting to anyone.
2.       Single people can go home when they  want.
  2.   Single people have more free time than married people.
          A.   Married people
              1.    They have more responsibilty, so they may not find free time.
      B.    Single people
            1.      Because they are only responsible for themselves, they can find free time.
3.  Married people are more careful in making decision.
           A.   Married people
                 1.  Married people  must think the other people in their family when they make a decision.
                2.  Married people  must be careful about how to spend time and money.
           B.   Single people
               1.  Thinking only themselves is enough for single people.
               2.  They  think only themselves when they decide how to spend their time and money.

 
                         SINGLE LIFE AND MARRIED LIFE

Marriage has lots of different meanings in every culture, and it seems good and traditional behavior in most of them. However, it nearly changes every part of a person’s life. When we look at a single person’s life and a married person’s life, we can find lots of differences like independence, freedom and making decision.

            One of differences between single people and married people is that single people are more independent than married people. Married people need to express what they do in a day to their wives or husbands. Married people can’t do whatever they want unless they think of their family and permit to them. However, the single people don’t have to say something about their life to anyone. If they want to do something, wanting is enough for them to make it. Married people must think of what time they should go home because their family can worry about them. Moreover, they must spare time for their family. But, single people don’t need to be careful about what time they go to home.

            The other difference is that single people have more free time than married people. Married people have more responsibilities than single people. They must be interested in their children problem like their homework, their private life etc. Single people; on the other hand, are responsible for only them. So, they can find much more free time for sports, reading something, shopping, going to somewhere etc. And thinking themselves is enough for them to go to somewhere or do something.

            The third difference is that married people should be more careful when they make a decision and decide how to spend their time or money. Their decisions affect not only them but also other family members; therefore, they must think of the other family members, not only themselves. When they say a word, it is thought that this word is said by all people in the family, not a person. For example, one member of the family owe somebody, this debt is everyone in the home, both him and her.  Single people’s decisions, in contrast, affect only them. They must be careful when they promise or make a decision, but it isn’t so important as married people’s decision because their decision’s results are put up with by lots of people. Married people must be careful when they decide how to spend their time because their time is important their children’s behaviors which determine their future. Not only their time but also their way of the spending money is important for their family life and future. However, thinking of only their future, behavior and feeling may be enough for single people. They don’t have children whose behavior can be bad if they don’t have time for their children. And they don’t have a family which can be on the hook if they spend lots of money needlessly.

            Marriage is important for everyone and it can be thought that starting a family is necessary by some culture or people. In every part of the world, marriage has an important role for a person and its results are also important. But chances are mandatory for making a new family.

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  1. The married life would certainly be the best of all since it makes you very healthy to be in a relationship. And there are a lot of advantages being married as well, since you will always be together wherever you go instead of being alone and having no one which can certainly be very depressing.

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